"Waah re Zindgi"--n thats a Mentos Zindgi :)

What ever happens, Happens for good... in fact if something wrong happens that also carries a positive motto behind it !!
Year 2009 was a 'Learn to smile' year for me. Now you might be thinking "Shanky still learning to smile"...hmm well m talking about smiling in unfavorable conditions.
Year 2009 has taught me to just smile in troubles and quietly say "Waah re Zindgi". Life take many turns, sometimes you may feel you were not wrong but you suffered. Like me many others get irritated at such situations and become angry but no one thinks that this situation or suffering was meant for us to learn a lesson.

Room-224,Hall-2,N.I.T. Durgapur>> Residents- Watti, Jagga, Psycho and myself. We always pulled each others leg in fun and none of us ever felt bad. Soon these jokes became 'intensional comments' for me. I felt very irritated and never realized my mistake. Soon this irritation turned into anger and one day it busted on Jagga. He then explained why he used to pass those sarcastic comments- At times i used to pull his leg in public which he took personally and got angry on me and started playing Tit of Tat. I was still angry and we dint talk for weeks. Now here I learnt to SMILE-Waah re Zindgi and learnt the limits of leg pulling.

Many of us get irritated with our parents. Almost every time it happens that mine and my dad's ideas and thinking clashes. I always felt that he was wrong but if some one looks from his point of view he was never wrong. Now whenever I am angry on him I speak to my mind-"Waah re Zindgi, najane iss baar tu kya sikhayegi" and the process of learning LIFE continues.

A true Philosophy(of my own..hehee)--If you are not in healthy terms with a friend (may be your GF/BF) or relatives then the first thing-#You are responsible--now the question is how??--Ans: Either you were directly wrong or the other person was wrong and you could not correct him in time-So ultimately the fault was yours#
The second thing-#You dint follow 'Ignorance is bliss'- you never tried to ignore the misunderstandings or faults of that person and dint give an attemp to start it all new-Again your fault ultimately# STOP BLAMING OTHERS, its your life, you are the director of the 'play'...if you blame others for your life that means you are simply a puppet acting in the life's play!!

At the end of year 2009 I saw some changes- Now Whenever I am uncomfortable (with people) or feel like blaming god to put me in some troubling situation, I whisper to myself "Waah re Zindgi" and remain calm for some seconds. This way every time I confronted a reality-""You and only You are responsible for every bad turn in your life""
In some situations you may not be wrong at all but still it can be a windstorm for you..I will only suggest dont get irritated, God wants you to face it, God wants to make you stronger, God wants to teach you wrest happiness from L.I.F.E.
Life is like a mirror, it simply reflects your deeds. If you are right,hard working, truthful then sooner or later you will receive the reflected rays in form of some healthy reward. But if your deeds are not worth then never expect life to reflect Dollars. If you want others to be happy, first make yourself happy in the worst of worsts. Smile too follows 'Laws of reflection'...Your smile will be reflected back on other's face.

This post is dedicated to (from right to left)- Jagga, Watti, Psycho and myself--"The four mastikhors". I hope my friends will alwayz keep on teaching me 'learning by changing' and m so thankful to them for making me smile althrough the horny bushes.
Dont say CHEESE...say WAAH RE ZINDGI and thats the real mentos zindgi..Apne dimag ki batti jalao.

I wish a Very happy new year to all my friends, relatives,NIT DGPians, DPSians,SSGians, FIITJEEians and Indians...lolzzz. TC, God Bless!! :):)

Once he ran but came back home......this time he can't:(:(

June,2003, DPS Vindhyanagar...Session starts for 9th class. As usual me and Mrinal were all time together from 7am to 7pm. Meanwhile two new faces came up from DPS Korba to our school and both were from Shaktinagar. Since Mrinal was also en Ex-student of DPS Korba..he well knew both of them. They were Anurag Jha and Animesh Shaw. Initially we started interacting in our school bus from home to school and from school to home. I too soon came closer to both of these guys. Anurag basically changed our "No GAALI and always studying" attitude. We jumped into the world of "Lofarai". And after some months it was not just me and Mrinal but Annu and Anni too with us seen together everywhere.

Animesh was somewhat different and little serious kinda guy. He was brilliant at acads and badminton. His knowledge in Computer was incomparable- a fully tech mind. His sense of humour was fantastic..spoke less but full of humour eventhough it was tough for us to understand him at times.

June,2004, SSG (an exclusive institute for IITJEE preparation)...All the four of us joined SSG for IIT preparation. Just after two-three months we started bunking our coaching and used to go vindhyanagar (10 kms) by cycle daily. We continuously bunked for 4 months. Lastly as a consequence of the report card directly coming to our homes we all were caught by our families. Other three stopped goin SSG then but I resumed. Our preparation for board exams started. By this time all the four of us had a female crush. Mrinal- Keshika.....Anurag-Pallavi, Animesh-Ritika and SHANKARANSH-???
Well for other three of us it was just a crush game...but for Animesh I think it was something else. He never used to play with girls but there after Anni starte playing mixed doubles in Badminton that too Ritika as her partner...woow:)
March,2004...Came our board exams...we all gave it nicely. It was Animesh who called me up at 6:30am in the morning that i got 100 in mathematics and an unexpected overall-91.4%. Infact all the four of us did splendidly well.
Mrinal's dad got transfer to NTPC-Unchahar after our class 10th and Mrinal joined DPS-Noida. It was hard for me to spend time without him..I was used to him. This was the time that pulled me even more closer to Anni and Annu. Ritika and Keshika too left our school and joined some school at Jaipur and Dadri repectively.

2005...In class 11th, Animesh's mom somehow knew about Ritika and his terms with his Mom started souring. Her Mom's comments and 2-3 hour lecture everyday started pinching him from inside. None of us knew whats going on in his mind. He was an internet lover...but we never knew it could be dangerous.

10:30pm, 20th Feb,2005- I got a call from Anni's home his dad asking to send Anni back home.
I said "Uncle he is not at my home"
Uncle "he said he is going your home"
I "Noways uncle,he might be somewhere else"...and after sometime again he called
Uncle "No beta, he no where else...he took scooty and told he is goin to your home"
it was 11pm by then...All of us understood somthing has went wrong. All of our families gathered at Anni's home. We made calls to nearly all our class mates but could not retrieve Anni.
@12:30am Someone found Anni's scooty outside Bus-stand...it was clear he has ran off.
After two days...early morning I got a call from Anni's mom pleading me to tell where his son was. According to them I was Anni's best friend and I knew where Anni has ran off. They continued blaming me to support him...but i seriously dint know anything:(
After one month Anni came back(he ran to meet Ritika and spent rest of his days at delhi). When he came back...I was totally frustrated by the allegations put on me and refused to talk to Anni.
One more year passed...Anni was always in front of me but we hardly talked. But he used to tell about his even more souring relations with his mom.:(:(

We joined our colleges and after that in past three years I met Anni only once on New year party(2007).

16-12-2009, @10pm I got a call from one of my friends and heard the news that Animesh had a bike accident yesterday and God wrote his last bike ride of life!

"We miss you and you will always remain the same 'Anni' for us with whom we have spent our ultimate days of MASTI"....from Shanky, Mrinal, Annu and all other friends.